For Truth-Telling — However Bitter or Sweet
Ask
Think of a time when you were able to truly “weep with those who weep, and rejoice with those who rejoice” (Romans 12:15). Think of someone who was able to do the same for you in a time of need. Thank God for the gift of being able to give and receive this kind of presence and compassion.
Reflect
Listen to this simple Taizé song “Stay With Me.” Let it represent the presence that brings comfort. These were the words of Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane when he asked his friends to stay with him while he prayed about the cross he was about to face (Matthew 26:36-37). Think of a time you needed this same kind of loving-presence from people in your life.
Pray
God, give me the freedom to be able to tell the truth to myself, and the gift of someone who will listen to it. But God, when I have to say hard truths to someone, help me slow it down and pre-pare them, invite them. God, let my truth come gently. Amen.